Reflection on Amal Totkay

Saifa Amin
2 min readDec 25, 2020

Fight the black wall and bring in light.

Self-talk

You can’t just kill your wishes that’s you really want, just like you can’t fight with your thoughts. What can you rather do is believe in yourself, observe the voice of your heart, and just listen to it. You just have to fight the black wall and bring in light. With the negative thoughts, you make things worse than better.

Get out of your comfort zone

Some places where you are comfortable, where you work, where you spend most of your time, where you have a good cup of coffee, and where you read poetry are adorable. Life is not all about living in your own comfort zone but is also about sharing your zone with others. Just escape. Getaway and talk to people you love and admire.

Create new habits

Most of us wake up with a list of things we need to do every day. The same regular activities that we are comfortable with. Most of us just wake up with loneliness and darkness. Whereas, the world is enjoying and laughing. Just set a new light and make it shine. Start to love doing new things. Sometimes is this all little hope that everyone needs to wake up one more day.

Ask people help

Conversing deep with your loved ones who does not only helps you but also understands you and listens to you. They are the true ones to whom you can truly ask for help. As much as it’s important to plan your goals, it's more important to ask people for help to achieve those goals. You never know how people change your life.

Fake it till you make it

Oh gosh! No matter how difficult the thing is, imagining to achieve it is a beautiful hallucination of the real thing. People have an amazing ability to fake and imagine things which in turn boosts their confidence and strength.

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